In an op-ed piece for The New York Times about loss, grief, and putting on a Jane Jetson-like mask of perfect happiness to hide our pain, Meghan Markle writes that she was pregnant with her second child with Prince Harry (yes, my ~oh-so-clever~ nickname of Prince Hot Ginge is sitting this post out) but tragically had a miscarriage. Meghan goes back to last year when she was in Africa and ITV News reporter Tom Bradby brought up all the tabloid and media attention on her and asked her if she’s okay. Meghan used that moment to write about checking in on each other emotionally, especially during this shit-covered divided year from hell where so many people have experienced loss and hurt.